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Notice?
Okay, I figure since you are a guy you can help. I was wondering, what is the first thing that guys notice about girls? Also so they prefer girls who dress slutty or like who don't show anything?
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The first thing? Alas, it's probably physical attractiveness in broad terms. If it's the first time they meet a girl, most guys will look at their figure, followed by their face. It sounds rude or shallow, but girls do it too- you look at the most obvious physical points first. So yeah, they'll look at your body first, then your face. The consensus seems to be- boobs, then eyes. If you draw attention to your chest, that's where most people will look first, but your eyes are the most important part of your face. Any human being will read a lot from another persons eyes (I am also a sucker for girls with nice eyes.) Next on the list is probably your expression- it sounds stupid but people will judge a lot about your character based on your initial expression when they first meet you- whether you look open or guarded.
Hmmm... the slutty thing. I guess I have to be honest and say of course guys prefer slutty. Guys like flesh- the more you show the more immediately interested they will be, and that counts for pretty much all men. Having said that, are they likely to judge you on how you look? If you look 'slutty' then they may dismiss you as such, respect you less and ultimately treat you worse. Girls will probably feel the same way (fuck it, girls are WAY worse). It sounds like a copout answer but there are ways to show off your natural advantages without baring acres of flesh.
That last point is also quite important- if you can be sexy without being slutty guys will fall over for you. It's all about being subtle- dress to make yourself feel attractice (rather than wondering about other people), and you come off as sexy.
If I were to give definate advice, I'd say if there is a boy you want to notice you, don't let your physical features do all the talking. If you are friendly and cool with him him will definately 'notice' you, and will also probably think more of your physical appearence than if he were just staring at your rack from afar.
Long answer for a tough question. Good luck.
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