I think it's pretty strange of him to be grabbing you like that, especially since you're both so young. He seems to be behaving in a very childish manner; certainly, he is not displaying the kind of maturity that one needs to in order to have a sexually active relationship.
If this sort of thing is typical of the way he behaves, then dump him. You deserve someone who knows how to keep his hands to himself, show a little decorum, and not act like an eight-year-old. [ Xenolan's advice column | Ask Xenolan A Question ]
Quixotess answered Friday January 12 2007, 6:44 pm: Whoa whoa whoa! Have you told him to stop? That is NOT OKAY. The way he touches you clearly distresses you--let him know. I suppose he could just be a really clueless boy and not realize it makes you uncomfortable. So tell him to stop. Loudly.
If he still won't stop, GET AWAY. Do not continue your relationship. Do not encourage him. Avoid all contact with him. Because if a boy won't stop touching you when you tell him to stop, that is assault. And a boy who would assault you is not boyfriend material. [ Quixotess's advice column | Ask Quixotess A Question ]
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