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how can we trust each other ? ? ?
well i just started to talk to a couple of girls who i used to be really close to, and well there was a big blowout so we stopped talking for a while, and im glad that we are all talking again and everything but i know that its going to take a while for us to trust each other... if anybody has any ways that anybody knows of for me to be able to gain their trust of for them to be able to gain mine, please let me know...
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There's no real way to speed up this process...They say time heals everything, and for the most part it does. You guys have to start over again. Trust is a very fragile thing and once it's broken, it takes some time to build it up again.
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DON'T tell them secret until you know that you can trust them. and heres a way.:
-tell someone something that is NOT true and then tell her not to tell anyone. if it gets back to you you will know you can't trust the certain person.
- tell each person something different but remember what it was that you said to each person so you know what girl you can trst and what not :)
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Hey,
Well, recently, I was in this same predicament. Me and my friend got into this huuuge fight after being as close as, well, sisters!
Anyways, it did take her a while to give me her trust back, as it was a while for me to trust her.
So, your options are...:
1.) Just hang out like you used to. Start to tell them secrets. In most cases, you'll gain their trust back pretty fast.
BUT...IF THAT DOESN'T WORK OUT...
2.) Again, hang out-but just wait until they tell YOU secrets.
Hope I helped! & also hope that everything goes well.
-Jam
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