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will guys sleep with ugly girls
Would you have sex with a fat ugly girl?
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I am an ugly man of nearly 45 I have never had a girlfriend or any sex other with myself and despite what women say they will only sleep with or have sex with men like me if we have fame or fortune,so yes if any women no matter how fat and ugly she is offered me sex I would never turn it down,it's a bit like food really,if you were from a poor third world country or living rough on the streets in the western world you wouldn't turn down a sandwich because you didn't like the filling because you'd never know when the chance would arise again.
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Less attractive people aren't going to be the ones that other people lust after. That's just how it is. They're not going to have a lot of casual sex, but lust, casual sex, and sex are very different things.
Lust is basically someone that you are physically attracted to. Someone that you would think about while masturbating if you are into that. Less attractive people will have less people lusting after them.
Casual sex is sex for pleasure. When there are no feelings involved, you get more pleasure out of having sex with someone that you feel lust for. Less attractive people, therefore, will get less casual sex, too.
With sex, or lets call it "love-making", the pleasure doesn't come just from being with someone hot. The pleasure can come from within also. Feelings play a huge role with sex if you are in a relationship.
The sad part is that less attractive people don't have as many relationships when they are younger as more attractive people do. That gives them less confidence, making themselves even more unattractive. Teenagers' hormones are raging and it's easy for them to confuse lust and love during those years as they are maturing. I did. Sadly, some people don't mature in this area at all. Yes, it's always nice to love someone that is also hot, but love doesn't always work that way.
So, less attractive people get less sex because they aren't the object of many people's desires. The sex they get, however, is meaningful and that is important.
I know this is a huge generalization, but I've heard this from many guys (mature ones) and noticed it a bit myself. Less attractive girls tend to be nicer and they are better for having relationships with. Attractive girls can let their attractiveness get to their heads and their personalities can suffer. The guys that I have talked to admit not going after very attractive girls for this reason. They go for less attractive girls with the hopes that they will hit the jackpot with personality.
It might take them awhile to mature into thinking this way, but there are a lot of guys out there that think like this. Of course they want to get with someone hot...we all do. They'll of course try to get with someone that's hot before someone that's not. However, some of them know that sex can be just as good with someone that's less attractive if the other feelings are there. As much as people want to be with someone hot in the short term, they want to end up with someone that's going to be good for them in the long term - hot or not.
If you are making a joke by asking this question, I hope that you don't think low of less attractive people. I really hope that you were just curious.
If you yourself feel fat and ugly and want to know your chances with sex, confidence is the best way to remedy this. I know a lot of bigger girls that are very self confident. They don't pretend they're really good looking and wear clothes that are too small or anything like that. They just would never feel fat or ugly. They know they are bigger and they know that there are more attractive people out there. They're not living in fairyland. They just want to be the best person that they can. Confidence is a straight path to success. :)
Your answer: Yes, some guys will have sex with fat, ugly girls. I know several. If I were a guy I would consider it too. It's not what anybody wants, but it can become so if you give the girl a chance.
Last, I want to say something about all the "vaginas are vaginas" comments. It's not that if the person is ugly you don't have to look at their face. That's a terrible way of interpreting it. Interpret it in a more positive way. Whether you're hot or not the guy isn't going to be looking at your face anyways. He's going to be focusing on other things. Guys can look at girl's faces whenever they want. Why waste the time looking at faces when they can look at other things that they don't get to see quite as often?
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I wouldn't have sex with a girl who considered herself too fat and ugly to be attractive. In order for me to feel that kind of affection and desire for someone, she has to like herself and feel a certain amount of confidence. If she's convinced that she's too fat and ugly to be desirable... then she's right. And I certainly wouldn't have sex with a woman who thought I was doing it out of pity, or who was convinced that I was cringing away from her because she's so fat and ugly.
That having been said, I do need to feel a certain degree of physical attraction to a woman before I can get turned on by her. But it's amazing how much of someone's beauty comes from how they carry themselves and how confident they are.
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Well, some guys do like fat, ugly chicks because usually that's all they can get. Pretty girls are quite a chase by playing hard to get. But since fat, ugly chicks don't get much action, they're easier to do. Pretty much, a vagina doesn't have a face. But remember, whether she's fat, ugly or both, they need love too. :]
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my best guy friend told me, it's not about the body, as long as she has a vagina i'll screw her. so i guess some guys would, it depends on the guy.
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To quote a 'friend' of mine, "Pussy don't have no face". I've heard from several folks I've met that if she is "fat" and "ugly", who cares? They always have the option of blocking out the rest of her body and only focusing on the spot that's in need. It's rather shameful and degrading, but people do truly stoop that low. :/
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