My very best friend has been acting sorta mean like different since we first met. She acts like since she is older than me by a few months she can boss me around! I mean she still is nice to me but at times she can really get to my nerves. We never really fought but do get mad at each other. When she around other people she treats me like I'm not there and I'm invisable. I don't know if she means to do this but it bothers me. And when I want to sit by one of my friends she no I want to sit by her! And she always gets her way! She is real spoiled too but thats not really the problem. What should I do?
Debateist answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 6:20 am: I had this problem before aswell and I dealt with it by calling her on it. If you dont feel you can do this face to face incase she gets angry then do it by phone but never ever do it by text. But you have to talk it out otherwise she wont realise what she is doing wrong.
Good luk, hope things work out for you!
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GREEN_EYES23 answered Wednesday January 10 2007, 12:22 am: Okay this best friend of yours really sounds like the the way mine is at times.
they just wanna be cooler and funnier to other people and make themselves seem like there the best...but deep down inside of them they are under pressure and they pick on the people they love the most because they know that the person they pick on
will easily forgive them.So its not her fault she acts that way,evryone is like that from time to time.its called peer pressue. you probly have done it once too but you dont relize it. your friend is probly like oh shes a dork in front of other people and when you too are alone she is like really nice to you right? well just tell her how u feel and to stop doing that to you...and at times when she pulls those little tricks just hang with your other friends and blow it off because she will see what has happend and she will follow u and thats when you tell her what shes done k and if she doesnt say im sorry and she keeps acting the way she does that means its time for you to find a
new best friend
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