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does cumming over my underwear make me pregnant?
well im 17, my boyfriend massaged his penis on my organ, but we both were wearing underwears , is it possible for me to be pregnant ?
and if its possible ,,how much time does it take to be pregnant ? help please im in a religious country that i cant ask anyone and i need help.thank you
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The only way you could possibly get pregnant from that would have to be if he soaked your underwear with his sperm at your vagina.
Sperm need a moist environment to move in. They are little bitty creatures with tails--the tail flutters and propels them throughout the moist area. They are very small so there IS a chance they can swim through fabric as long as it was throughly moistened. These little guys were designed to ensure reproduction--that is the only reason they are alive; they will do what they can to find the goal.
It only takes ONE sperm to fertilize your one egg inside of you. When a guy ejaculates, billions of sperm are game to finding the egg. Sperm can live inside of you, in perfect conditions, for about 5 - 7 days; however, it is definately not unheard of to find live sperm inside of a woman two weeks later. I would safely say that from the second your vaginal area came in contact with sperm until about two weeks time your egg may become fertilized and pregnancy result.
You need to realize that one night of sex can result in creating another life or living with a disease the rest of yours. I know many people who lost their virginity and became pregnant (or had gotten the girl pregnant) the same night. They weren't emotionally ready to have children but they made one mistake and they now have a tough road ahead of them trying to make enough money and time for their child. Having a child means being completely selfless because they need 100% of your attention 100% of the time. Having children means major sacrifices, especially in the emotional department.
Even if you think that you can have an abortion if there happens to be a pregnancy, consider the consequences of that action too. Some women suffer major depression for many years after having an abortion. There are cases of women committing suicide years after having an abortion because they couldn't deal with what they had done. Some women become infertile and can no longer have any children. Some really good men refuse to be with a woman who has had an abortion. Throwing a life away because you wanted to have some fun should be an unacceptable option.
You're aware you're not financially and emotionally ready to be a parent or you wouldn't worry about pregnancy. I'm sure you want to give your future children the best possibly life and if you contract an STD you may not be able to have children, may be too sick to raise them completely, or may pass something along to them. It would be especially scary if your partner impregnated you and then left the relationship for you to handle all of the childcare.
Here are some facts about how much a baby costs within the first year of life; you should really check it out just for future issues as the knowledge could come in very handy:
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I wish you luck on becoming more knowledgeable about sexual activity so that we don't see you again here in fear of a pregnancy.
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There is no way possible that you are pregnant. Unless a penis is inside of the vagina, where both liquids can meet and develop, you're fine.
Relax.. by freaking out, you can actually cause your period to come later, and create pregnancy symptoms in your head.
You're not pregnant. =)
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calm down.
you aren't pregnant, and that can't make you pregnant.
if you want to be even more safe, just have him wear a condom even if you aren't having sex.
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