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My friend Lisa recently broke up with her boyfriend, Kent. He told her he loved her, etc, and she believed him. Sounds cliche, but with a twist: they didn't sleep together. She still crys most of the time when we mention him. I've known him longer than I've known her. She was telling me that he made her feel inferior (he didn't try, he's just so perfect) and I told her that I never asked him out because I felt he was too good for me. She suggested I ask him to the next girl's choice dance and offered to be in my group and fix my hair. Does this sound like a trap to anyone?
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She may be just trying to be in the group to get next to Kent..but hey, I'm not Lisa and I can't assume or speak for her.
Just ask her straight out if she's just trying to get close to Kent. Tell her that you don't have a problem with that and if she wants to, she can just say yes instead of trying to be devious. If you don't want to throw this assumption at her, than tell her straight out that you don't think that it's a good idea because she is denying her feelings by telling you to ask him out, etc. And if she is persistant and keeps on declining your idea, than go to the assumption because she's trying to get with Kent by using you
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For the most part' yes. but hey if it is and things start to get hott and heavey between you and kent; and your friend gets mad, simply state that she said you could [make it nice not snooty] and go for the whole he makes me really happy. youll meet a guy right for you soon..
ha'
works for me most of the time.
and i always get the guy and i got to keep all of my friends!
GOOD LUCK.
hope you get the guy!
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