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people think i'm a lezbian


Question Posted Thursday January 4 2007, 5:53 pm

ok so at school i was drawing this random picture and there was this guy sitting next to me (i'm a girl) and the picture i was drawing happened to be of a girl also and she didn't have a head yet so he says to me "I never thought i would see this in a girls notebook! your a lezbian!" i'm not and so he tell my whole class (its a small school things get around fast) so now all my friends are uncomfortable around me and i'm afraid that none of the guys will like me now. Help me please!

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alisonmarie answered Friday January 5 2007, 12:16 pm:
If you act comfortable with this situation, and as if there is nothing to be embarassed about, your friends are likely to do the same. If you act like there is something to be shameful about or need to hide, your friends will probably be a little suspicious.

You and I both know there's nothing wrong with drawing whatever you want - after all, that's what art is. This guy sounds immature, and are you willing ruin you?

If he told people you are a lesbian, they might be wondering if you are. Chances are he didn't tell them he thought this because of a picture you drew. Rumours grow and spread.

To nip this in the bud, explain what happened to your friends. They'll hopefully help spread the word, and this will blow over before you know it.

Best of luck.

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