My mum is positive the boy next door to us will 'harm'(touch) my brother. He's 13 and my bro's 3. I've known this boy for about 5 years now...and I haven't suspected him (although i don't relly talk to him much). He has 2 older brothers and his mother is one of my mother's best friends.
I don't know where she got this idea...but she said she saw the boy, one day, touch my brother's private. My bro wasn't wearing a pampers. I'm sure she's totally over reacting because she does this quiet ALOT! Also..it could be her mind to protect my brother because the night before she saw a baby and the baby's cousin raped her! I don't know what to think now...although I highhly doubt the boy's gay!!!
I don't want to change her mind..cause she'll come up with some stupidness to tell me. Now she doesn't want the boy to play with my brother...and she doesn't want to carry my brother to his mom's b-dai party. I know it sounds stupid for me to act like this...but my brother need friends too....what to do?
Leave them? I don't want the neighbour to hate us!!!!
Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 3 2007, 7:02 pm: I agree with everything Mallamun said.
I just want to add, that although your brother needs friends, he is only 3 years old. This other kid is 13. It could be taken kind of weird that a 13 year old is buddies with a 3 year old.
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