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there`s this guy... he`s completely gorgeous.`ve asked him who he likes and he says that he likes someone but I later found out he was saying that for reasons that are too long to type [and not its not to push me away, its different]. we used to like each other, but now i don`t like him anymore, I just kinda have this lust over him because he has a perfect body & he`s always teases me [by lifting up his shirt, giving me sexy looks, inviting me to places like his room, shower, etc.]. I'm thinking that maybe I should tease him right back, because hell, it makes me want him more. if this is a bad idea? if not, what can I do to tease him? thanks <3
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It's not a good idea to do this as both of you can get hurt from it. You enjoy the process of getting someone to be attracted to you and that's fine but you must not use "lust" and sexuality to rope someone in and then when they seem committed to liking you back push them aside because you really did not like them that way. basically, if you do not want that ever done to you do not do it to him.
You should tell him the looks, lifting his shirt etc needs to stop (in a tactful way of course) as you are not interested romantically in him. Especially, you should mention the shower thing as he's looking to take things to a level you do not want to go to and may be under the impression you want that kind of relationship.
It seems you are in over your head here and not sure what is right. Trust your gut! As far as teasing someone when you are in an actual relationship your imagination is the best resource to use as only you can know what will turn him on because what turns someone else on will not work for you.
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you should only tease him if you think that if he decides to take what ur putting out .. you can handle .. because he may think oh she wants to have sex. but you just wanna tease him make sure your comfortable with the situation - please stay safe =]
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