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We like the same guy
15/F
I have terrible luck with guys, but I know one through my best friend and we get along amazingly. He likes me back.
The problem is, my best friend likes him as well and he lives about an hour away and she would get to see him more often than me.
She knew him first, but I would have to say I like him more. And he likes me, not her.
Is it wrong for me to try to purse a relationship with him? And would she have reason to be mad at me over this?
Thanks! =)
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friends last alot longer than BFs so i would say keep the friend not the guy but if i did i would be a total hipocrite
hope i helped:)
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no it's not wrong, it's not your fault both of you like each other, why suffer because of your friend? she might be mad, but she'll get over it.
this actually happened to me a few years ago. i met the guy through my best friend, and she didn't tell me she liked him. so one day i was like "i think i'm gonna tell him i like him" and she was like "what?! you knew i liked him" and i was like "no i didn't..." it wasn't my fault she didn't make the move first you know?
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If the two of you like each other, then you should try to make something of a relationship with him. Now if it is wrong, that is up to an individual person. Now on the other side of this, there is your friend to consider. Either way she would have a bit of reason to be mad at you. First reason, would be her feeling that you took this guy away from her. Second, she may feel jealous for having introduced the two of you and then see you two work a relationship when she feels something for him. You can't help who you like, so in that aspect I would say go for it. Just be prepared to possibly lose your friend over this. True good friends will get over this fact, just don't know how close the two of you are. If you want to maintain her friendship for sure though, I wouldn't risk it until, you knew for sure, she had talked to this guy and told her he's not interested in her like that; as well as waiting for her to find a new interest. I know it sounds funny, but if she into another guy she will feel less of the mad/jealous thing between the two of you.
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You cannot help but have feelings for someone. What I think you should do is be honest, and come out and tell her. I would rather hear the truth from my best friend than hear a twisted up story through stupid rumors or people.
Good luck.
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