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BEST FRIENDS
how do you get a best friend? I have some friends now that I dont really think will be best friend material, though they are my friends.... but sometimes i want that person that i can do anything with and just have fun and stuff. but its hard to find!
13/f
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The way to get a best friend is to be a loyal friend! Ive found that being the person that someone can count on, a shoulder to lean on really pays off. Dont gossip or spread rumors or start drama if you want a best friend. And just try to find one person you are closest to and bond. It happens naturally, of course, you cant really force it. But you can invite people over and be a good friend. :]
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You dont go searching, thats a start.
You'll eventually find a bestfriend, until now your best bet is to go outside your normal standards for friends and meet new people.
Bestfriends don't come easy.
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just to sorta verify what a good friend should be like:
they're not ur friend if they demand your silence, or denies your right to grow.
think about it...it should make some sense LOL
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Join a club at your school. The other people in the club might have similar likes and dislikes as you.
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Best friends take time to develop. The friends that you have now, even though you don't think that they are best friend material, they may become your best friend in the future. Best friends share a common of wide variety of interests. They can talk to each other. They love eahother..etc. It's not an over night thing. The best friends that I have now took me about 3 years to become best friends with. And we gets into fights every now and then, but who doesn't? Hope I helped.
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