Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 10:43 pm
Ok so i have this ex boyfriend and sometimes i tend to see him around,he works at a restaurant and the other day he gave me and my friends free food, and to everyone else he can look in the eyes and act normal but when i get close he tends to act like tough and hard and cannot look at me in the eyes, i look at him but he just stares down...and i tell him thank you for the food and he says ur welcome but still does not look at me.Im just wondering if anyone could advice me on what this could mean...it has me really confused.Thanks
vomski10 answered Saturday December 30 2006, 11:52 pm: its probably because he still has feelings for you, and looking at you will make him sad cuz he will be able to see what he's lost. he acts tough because he doesn't want you to think he's sad over you because he doesn't wanna seem pathetic. and he's probably afraid if he looks in your eyes you'll be able to see his sadness. bottom line, he still likes you. [ vomski10's advice column | Ask vomski10 A Question ]
coso22 answered Saturday December 30 2006, 11:39 pm: I think in exsperience that it is hard to talk to somone that you are really into. I sort of know from exsperience. I have lots of different freinds that are girls and I really think they are pretty, and others that I like just as freinds. But I somtimes find myself as a nervous wreck talking to somone I am really into. But then I try to get over it and bring up the conversation.
It sounds as if he still really likes you but he knows that you two are over. It maybe even sounds as if he is trying to block out his affection and he doesnt know how to handle his affection for you. But dont worry I think that if he cant man up and talk to you like a regular person than its his loss. I bet you are a great person to hangout with. But I would just try to hangout with him more and maybe he will get over hiding his affection for you.
xXxPorschexXx answered Saturday December 30 2006, 11:17 pm: Heya! I think it sounds like he may not be fully over you yet! this could casuse him to look down with nervousness when he sees you! but it should go away with time and if you speak to him more often then he should become more comfortable with you again! it could mean many things but i think mainly it is that he still likes you but realises that you two are over! sooo dont worry hunni! Hope this helps xox Porsche [ xXxPorschexXx's advice column | Ask xXxPorschexXx A Question ]
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