I HAVE FEELINGS FOR A GUY THAT I HAVEN'T SEEN IN A WHILE AND
Question Posted Saturday December 30 2006, 7:35 pm
I think he might have had feelings for me the last time he saw me (which was in the middle of june). He was like flirting with me but I didn't realize it at the time. And every time he sees me he like smiles and he sort of looks into my eyes- but I get all nervous and I lose the courage to go up to him and talk to him. He's older than me (but all my bfs have been) and I know I'll never see him again. I wish I could just call him and tell him how I feel- I feel almost certain that he's interested. But I don't know what I would say to him on the phone without sounding creepy and awkward. (I really don't know him that well and I haven't spoken to him since June)
So any advice on what to do (to get this relationship started) would be greatly appreciated. Like what should I say on the phone?
ChocolateCots answered Saturday December 30 2006, 8:45 pm: Well, I've been in a situation like that... Almost exactly. He was three years older...
And, so I told him after talking with him for a while about how I felt... He told me he didn't feel the same way...
I was devestated. But... I knew him my whole life, I just rarely saw him...
So...
I don't know how that helps, but just be careful because I was shattered.
xXxPorschexXx answered Saturday December 30 2006, 8:23 pm: Heya, before you talk to him i think you should meet up with him before you say anything and try and see if you think there is still the same feeling between you two He could feel differently. If you still feel the same after you have seen him and spoken to him then you should just try and hint it by flriting a lot and see if he shows emotion back! Also another important thing to check is if he has a girlfriend! If you havent spoke to him for a while you made need to check hes still available! When you feel there is something there then tell him (if its easier for you then over the phone) but tell him casually and that you have liked him for a while and dont pressure him and be sure to say that you still want to be friends! I really hope it works for you! Please tell me how it goes!
Hope it helps xox Porsche [ xXxPorschexXx's advice column | Ask xXxPorschexXx A Question ]
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