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Fake Happiness?


Question Posted Saturday December 23 2006, 4:28 pm

Female / Teen

If I act like someone else in order to be happy, will I be as happy as when I am just myself?

Right now I'm not happy and I would like to act differently.

And how can you tell if you're being something you're not.. or if that really is who you are.

Thanks!


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Additional info, added Saturday December 23 2006, 4:30 pm:
Example: Acting outgoing and funny

Rather than quiet.. or something.
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The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Saturday December 23 2006, 11:28 pm:
How can you actually be someone that you're not? You are who you are. Don't think about whether it's "the real you" or not. Just do what you think you should do.

If you like the way you act, you'll be happy. Just make sure that if you change the way you act, it is because you want to (as opposed to acting differently just because someone else wants you to).

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bLue_in_tHe_faCe answered Saturday December 23 2006, 10:59 pm:
I believe you will be happy when your yourself. I think when youre not yourself, some people can tell if your being fake or not. If your not your self, I think you dont like things as much as you really would being who you truely are. Example, like if you like oldies and rock and you act like you like rap, you'll probably just feel right listening to what you really like. Also, I think that you can start loosing intrest in stuff you dont truely like. Main you should just stay true to yourself and do what makes you happpy

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