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i;m a 13 yr girl and i've never had a b/f, what would make a
Hi, my names Cierra and I would like to know what a guy sees in a girl.People AKA my friends tell me I dont need a guy 2 make me happy but I disagree.I get verry upset evry day when I come home to find a sloppy screwed up girl who has sat and waited 4 a guy 2 come 2 her 4 13 years.I am verry funney sorta chunkey and a little shy.This year I've gotton a lot better and asked a cuple guys but they all turned me down.Can you help me boost my self confadence and get a guy before the year ends?
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Ok, starting with the first question. At your age the vast majority of guys are after looks. I was tempted to say "guys are shallow at that age", but then I was reminded that most of the girls I knew back then went for looks or popularity. So maybe its just an age thing.
I cannot boost your self confidence. I am the wrong person to ask Im afraid. If you do figure out how to handle yourself better with the opposite sex, make sure you let me know too :)
One thing I am wondering about is maybe you are asking the wrong guys out. Usually girls tend to flock around the same guys which (either because of this attention, or because of genetics) tend to be the most shallow, looks fixated bunch of baboons. I remember about five years ago when I saw one of my friends manage three girlfriends at the same party (each thinking she was the only one of course). That guy wouldnt look twice at an average looking girl.
Ok Im getting off track. My advice is just to have a good look and see who you are asking out. Second, be patient. You sound like you regard yourself like an old lady that needs a husband. You are 13, just take it easy.
Finally, do you have any guy friends? A good way to meet guys and to develop a relationship that goes beyond looks is to be friendly with them first. That way you can find out if you have common interests.
Well, good luck. I know this isnt a problem solver, but I hope you can use it for something.
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