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clingy? ok well this year at school,i have a new friend(a girl like me). and i mean we are so much alike and all but i cant tell if thats a good thing or a bad thing.plus i had two other friends who i hung out with all 6th and 7th grade,and now that i have this new friends its like we arent friends anymore, and our little click is broken up..i dont know if i should tell my new friend or if i should just let her keep on dragging me away from my other friends. she makes me go to the gym with her alone and stuff, and i cant figure out wat to do...can anyone help?
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First of all, people change. You may not be hanging out with your other friends as much just because you drifted apart, whether because of your new friend or not. But if you really think you are spending too much time with your new friend, then you SHOULD talk to her. Just let her know how you feel and see how she feels about it. ]
It sounds to me like she just really wants to be your friend. Does she have alot of friends? If not, she might be clingy because she has no one else to cling to. Then again, maybe she just really likes hangin with you because you guys are just alike. Either way, there is a reason she is being so clingy.
I think you should just try to hang out with your other friends. Maybe hangout with all of them at one time on a Saturday or something, like Ms Clingy and your other 2 friends. If you ever go to the mall or something, try calling up 1 of the others that you dont get to hang out with. Just make sure that Ms Clingy knows that just because you have other friends doesn't mean you cant be hers.
Hope I helped.
-Linsay ]
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