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I'm annoyed by all of this
Theres a boy who liked me and then I went out with a boy and i still liked him I broke up with him but not for the boy I like just because I didn't really like him anymore and this boy I like tells me he found someone else after he was ignoring my texts so I stopped and he always stares at me still like he still really does like me but he feels awkward and i don't think he found someone else he probably just thought nothing was happening between me and him and he didn't even know I broke up with my bf. but then he texted me two weeks after and I texted back but then again i got nothing.
10 minutes ago I told him.
"I'm not obsessed but I don't like being ignored and if you really don't want to talk to me anymore then please tell me"
I said I wasn't obsessed because sometimes I say hey to him just to see if he would reply back hahah.
I'm not waiting for him and I never will but I really like him and I just don't want to feel this awkwardness around eachother anymore.
He hasn't replied back yet but do you think it was a good idea to tell him that or no. cause I'm feeling kinda weird about sending it.
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Dear annoyed,
Well you shouldn't really feel awkward about the text you sent because you told him what was on your mind and that's the truely right thing to do. If you really him make a bold move and ask him if he wants to hang out at your place, maybe watch a movie and order some pizza, and if that turns out good than great for you, if not, then maybe he wasn't worth it.
-Beanie
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It's a good thing you didn't curse him out or anything like that. I think what you sent him is totally a good way to start solving this.
First, ask him about this "someone else" he found, face-to-face or in an e-mail or whatever. Tell him you hope everything goes with him and her (even thought you and I both know that there is no 'someone else').
Tell this guy that you want to be friends. Tell him you think he's cool and all (don't get carried away on complimenting him) but you want to know why he's not talking to you. Ask him, "What did I do to you that was so wrong?" Get an answer out of him.
If he continues to ignore you, then tell him, "Okay. Keep ignoring me. I'm sorry for whatever I did... I guess you just don't like me anymore." Try to make him feel guilty for ignoring you, and everything.
Hope I've helped
-Jenny C
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Two things can be taken from this-either the prospect of not being able to be with you because of this boyfriend you had hurt this kid because he felt you were being led on, or he is just weird. As a guy, I've always felt awkward hanging out with girls that were "taken," since sometimes boyfriends can get possesive and its almost not worth dealing with. This guy just might have taken to that kind of strategy, or he may have legitimately found someone else he liked.
Either way, there are many fish in the sea, and getting caught up on one that creates a lot of problems for you is hardly worth it. And if someone won't even respond to you, then its even less worth the effort you'd need.
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