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Are guys willing to have sex with anyone thats a girl, or do they have to be attracted ?
Just wondering. (link)
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This is an entirely subjective question-some guys would, some guys wouldn't. There are also a lot of variables that need to be looked at-likes and dislikes, how long it has been since the guy's last sexual excursion and other such things. It really is individual, but most guys have higher standards than most people would think, I've found.
And a lot of this question can be answered in terms of how long the guy and chick have known each other-attraction obviously helps, but I wouldn't say that any one guy would not sleep with an unattractive girl if there was a preexistent relationship and the expectations were mutually understood.
And to comment a bit on Scribble's comment-I've found that alcohol doesn't seem to make any of the guys I know "like ugly girls more," but they use it as an excuse to sleep with ugly women and not get ripped for it by friends-its easier to say, "I was drunk" than "I was really horny," if that makes any sense.
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Theres a boy who liked me and then I went out with a boy and i still liked him I broke up with him but not for the boy I like just because I didn't really like him anymore and this boy I like tells me he found someone else after he was ignoring my texts so I stopped and he always stares at me still like he still really does like me but he feels awkward and i don't think he found someone else he probably just thought nothing was happening between me and him and he didn't even know I broke up with my bf. but then he texted me two weeks after and I texted back but then again i got nothing.
10 minutes ago I told him.
"I'm not obsessed but I don't like being ignored and if you really don't want to talk to me anymore then please tell me"
I said I wasn't obsessed because sometimes I say hey to him just to see if he would reply back hahah.
I'm not waiting for him and I never will but I really like him and I just don't want to feel this awkwardness around eachother anymore.
He hasn't replied back yet but do you think it was a good idea to tell him that or no. cause I'm feeling kinda weird about sending it. (link)
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Two things can be taken from this-either the prospect of not being able to be with you because of this boyfriend you had hurt this kid because he felt you were being led on, or he is just weird. As a guy, I've always felt awkward hanging out with girls that were "taken," since sometimes boyfriends can get possesive and its almost not worth dealing with. This guy just might have taken to that kind of strategy, or he may have legitimately found someone else he liked.
Either way, there are many fish in the sea, and getting caught up on one that creates a lot of problems for you is hardly worth it. And if someone won't even respond to you, then its even less worth the effort you'd need.
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