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How can it my penis, to take a longer time to cum?
Well basically ive had sex a few times now, and ive never really had a long session as my dick seems to cum to quickly, at times my dick has cummed at the excitment of her brushing her vagina over me! i had sex the other day and within a couple of minutes if that i had cummed i really hate it and i feel i cant give girls pleasure to the maximum, so im wonderin if there's a way of making my dick take a longer time to penetrate the cum, or its because im still at a young age n my penis hasnt developed properly, please help?
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Well, your penis is a part of you and not a separate identity. This is good news, as it means there are things you can do to help you last longer.
One is sort of 'training' yourself during masturbation. While you are masturbating, see if you can get yourself almost to the point of cumming, and then stop touching yourself. Give yourself a few minutes to back off from that point, and then do it again.
Regularly trying this out is valuable for a couple of reasons. First, it shows you how to recognize when you are about to reach the point of no return. This means that when you are with a girl and you feel this point approaching, you can slow down or stop moving until you're feeling more in control. Most girls wouldn't mind this, as it ultimately means you'll be able to have sex for longer.
This masturbation training also helps you learn that you are in control of what happens downstairs. Once you get your head round this idea, it makes it easier to realise that you have choices and can manage things better.
Another thing is to use your brain - meaning that throughout sex (or masturbation, again, try it out and see if it works!) you try to focus your mind. You can think about trying to stop cumming, or you can think distracting thoughts to make yourself last longer. The brain is a really amazing thing, so this might really help.
Finally, in consideration of your partner, you might spend a lot of time on foreplay. This means that she can possibly have an orgasm before sex - or at least be near enough the point that shorter sex would be okay. If you cum and she hasn't, there's nothing better than a partner who will take care of her needs. You can use mouth or fingers.
The younger you are, the quicker you will get another erection as well. So if you decide to try sex again, make sure you use a new condom. Condoms not only protect against STDs/STIs and pregnancy, but they can also reduce your sensitivity and really help you last longer before you cum.
This is a fairly common problem among younger guys, but with some practice you will hopefully be able to learn how to control your body - instead of the other way around.
Best of luck.
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