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question for guys
okkay so usually when i hang out with my boyfriend alot of his friends are around..which i dont mind at all because most of his friends are pretty cool and fun to hang out with..but im not sure how to act when im around them am i suppose to like talk to them and get into their conversation or focus more on my boyfriend..do i like hold him hand or flirt with him so he can show me off or does that embarress him?? thank you soo much :]]
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I've done pretty well with my boyfriend's friends, so here's what I did.
I just act like one of the guys. I'll sit with my boyfriend and cuddle with him, but I'll still play video games and watch hockey with them.
Don't be too girly, and make sure you get involved in whatever they're doing, so that he sees exactly how fun you are!
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Well, it really depends on the guy. If he's pretty popular, does sports, and doesn't mind a flirt or two in front of the guys, than it's fine to hold hands for a while, and you can flirt with him in front of his friends if it's just looks like you're joking around with him. If he is more laid back and somewhat shyish than I would pay just a little more attention to him than his friends, but don't hold hands or anything.
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Just do whatever you want. If you want to talk to them and join in, then go ahead. Don't feel like you're just there to show off like an expensive watch. Make yourself known and talk to his friends. I'm sure he wouldn't mind. Don't look into it too much. If you do get to a point where it annoys your boyfriend, or you did something he didn't approve of, then just talk things over and settle on something. Feel free to ask him what is ok and what is not. We aren't the ones in the relationship, so we can't fully answer that for you. Ask him what he likes the best. Hope that helped and good luck.
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