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Reaching the Unreachable


Question Posted Tuesday December 12 2006, 10:32 am

A few years ago my mother passed away. In her things left behind I found a letter. This letter stated that the man I knew as my father wasn't my father. After researching, I found that the man named in the letter as my father, has been deceased almost 20 years. The letter indicated a brother, The man did indeed leave behind a son when he passed. Leaving me with a whole new set of problems. The brother is famous.
I tried to absorb this imformation, I put the letter away. Thinking to myself, sure try to contact the man and have the whole world think you're crazy. As time went on it became a nagging thought in the back of my mind. I would see a film he was in and wonder, could he really be?
I reread the letter a thousand times. I visited my mother's grave, I screamed and cried. Still I did nothing. I'm an average person, housewife, and mother. I wasn't in his social league. He wouldn't give me the time of day. Again putting the letter away, setting aside thoughts of meeting him.
Some months later while doing some organizing, the letter again popped up. My husband told me to try. What's the worse that can happen? So I found the phone number to his production company, and tried to reach him. I was laughed at by his staff. I sent emails with no reply, and faxed a copy of the letter to his office; again no reply.
My request was simple and to the point. Would he at least consider the possibility and have a test done to prove or disprove the letter.
No reply. What exactly does no reply mean? Did his staff pass on the information? Do they think me a nut ? Does he even know of my attempts?
So now I'm left with more questions and at a loss on how to find the answers.

If anyone out there can supply the answers, I would be grateful.
Thank you for reading.


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Volleyball2150 answered Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:21 pm:
Ok,

now i'm not an expert at this, buuut I've seen in movies that when nothing else seems to work, they actually leave their home and actually try to find that person. Soo, I know this advice may be hopeless, and I don't care if you give me a 1... I just wanted to give you advice and try to make you feel better. You seem really sad and upset and I want you to know that i'm here for you, and I'm truly sorry. If nobody on this website can help you, and you think my advice is pointless, then try going to a phyciatrist (sp?) and ask them. If that doesn't work, again, i'm very very very sorry and I hope all goes well for you.

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