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Ok let's start out im 20 year's old i got alot of friends age's between 14-20 well one of my friends i will say A is 14 years old and im good friends with her shes fun to talk to and hang out but im not thinking of dateing her or doing any sort of thing like that i just like hanging out with her. well my question is am i able to get in trouble for just hanging out with her? and if i do hang out with her is that consired a petafile? cause if im correct petafile is someone that has sex with someone under the age limit or other depending on state.
but i dont intend to now or in Future to date her,have sex with her.
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Thx all ya i dont have any sexual intent and i met her thro my friend jons brother zak who i hang out all time and its one of hes good friends and when i hang out with zak i think shes fun to talk to and hang out. and ya alot my friends are like 18/19 but i got ones from 14-17 to but most are the 18/19 and i hang out with those ones because i was in same grade as alot of the 18/19 i got held back one year of gradeschool and when i started highschool i was like 16 so ya and none of your guys comments where harsh it was just giveing me info but thx
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Don't get me wrong, it is a little wierd for a 20 year old male to be hanging out with a 14 year old female, but if both of you are okey with it, then it's not a problem at all(: Just like it's no biggy when, say, a 14 year old girl goes out for a day with her uncle. Except you guys are friends. Just as long as you two are having no sexual relations whatsoever, it doesn't matter.
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At your adult age it is very strange that you would prefer to hang out with or have anything in common with children who are 14. You are an adult, and these are children. You are an ADULT and these are CHILDREN. Okay? You will go to jail if you even get caught with the intent of having any kind of sexual activity with anyone under 18yrs old. You will have to register as a sex-offender and it will haunt you and affect your life wherever you go. No more potential for great jobs or girlfriends when they find out you are a predator. I find it very hard to believe your intentions are 100% innocent. Why don't you have friends your age? If you are drinking or doing drugs with any of these kids you will also be in huge trouble and looking at jail time for corrupting minors. Avoid hanging out with the children at all costs. You need to do a lot of growing up emotionally and mentally if you think it is normal or good to hang out with kids. At age 16, I was worlds apart from the 14 year olds, and at 20, I was worlds apart from 18 year olds! That is normal. How you are living is not! This may sound harsh, but it is exactly what will save you from ruining your life, so wise up and grow up. You are a 20 year old man. Start acting like one and stick to friends and girlfriends that are over 18 years old and out of highschool. Your life will benefit from doing what is right and becoming more mature.
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Honestly, most people are going to think you are strange for hanging out with 14 year olds.
Parents could make trouble if they wanted to, rumors can hurt too. But, if you do not have sex with her they can't arrest you for statutory rape.
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