Ok. So there's this guy (I know I know I can just hear you all sighing and going "yeah yeah yeah"). And we have a history. You see, it all started when my best friend, we'll call her Quin, wanted to take pictures of me and this guy, we'll call him Persey, for her photography project. Well in the pictures she wanted to do a strip (a series of pictures) and in the strip she had us kiss each other on the cheek. A couple of weeks after that, he asked her for my AIM name. We started talking. We flirted online for about two weeks and it seemed to be going pretty well...but then my best friend, who had had a crush on this guy for like 3 months before we even took the pictures, decided to totally tell him that I liked him. We had a very awkward conversation online in which he said "im ok with it really" and we kinda flirted some more. But the thing is, I'm not sure if he had been flirting with Quin as well over the past few weeks. Ok this was last Tuesday. Wednesday he was sick from school and wasnt online, and same thing with Thursday and Friday. Last night I'm pretty sure he went to Winter Formal with this other chick who is totally preppy and under all definitions fits the word "Abercrombiotch". I'm not positive they went together, but I couldnt go to formal and I dont know for sure. But I know if they went together they must have fallen in love, it was in this old barn and it was raining and it was all romantic. I cant get on AIM right now so I can't even talk to him and I have no friggin idea what's going on, but I had a dream he and Abercrombiotch got married and it was horrible. And now my best friend is jsut like "oh dont worry I dont like him now so there's nothing standing in your way" and its just like uhm hello! I'm just afraid he and Abercrombiotch are fucking in love. (Meaning they are currently fucking, and in love.) And at school all I have ever gotten from him is a few casual conversations. God I'm so pathetic. Anybody got any advice? Words of consolation? Anything?!
Additional info, added Tuesday December 12 2006, 2:18 am: Ok not like any of you care but NOW I guess he and abercrombiotch went ot formal just as friends, and he thought she had a big @$$. So that's all good, but we're nto "flirting" per say online anymore and it sucks real bad. I just want to..I dont know maybe I want to get over him I cant tell!. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? luvbug555 answered Monday March 12 2007, 12:42 am: i wouldent worry about him and Abercombiotch. he dosent like her. your friend was mean to tell this boy that you like him. in my opinion, he was only flirting with you and not her and she got jelous so she decided to screw everything up. i would maybe talk as friends a little bit online and then start the flirting thing again. good luck!
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Melody answered Monday December 11 2006, 4:59 pm: Abercrombiotch gets on my nerves, and I don't even know her. Hrmm. Screw her. Don't let her get to you, please?
School dances are never as romantic as you might think. For all you know the romantic rain was a downpour that was filling in through the cracks drenching Abercombiotch from head to toe making her look like a wet rat. And a barn? Seems romantic maybe, but i'd say a bunch of spiders nested in her hair, or but the fxck out of her. HAHAHA. I'm laughing just thinking about it.
If this guy seems to like you, then don't stop talking to him. You aren't officially together, so the fact he talks to other girls is irrelevant. Don't pay it any mind.
As for the dream, try to forget about it. I have had dreams in the past that hurt me, and I continue thinking about them to present day. But you have to remember, they're just dreams. Don't let them get to you. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
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