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This girl i have talked about before. We'll just call her sandy; she is a liar, backstabber, and a two face bitch. We used to be bestfreinds for like 6 months we were really close then her true face came out. all she wanted to do was talk about other people and i sreiously dont do that shit, its not me. id rather make freinds then enimies but she thinks oppisite. Anyway last night one of my bestfreinds (lets call her sally) slep over last night and my boyfriend so i told her to call her boyfriend and tell him to come over too since i fell bad to have my boyfirend over and her's wasnt there. anyway, she called him (lets call him bill) and was talking to him (bill is friends with this girl's "the bich" brother and any chance she gets sally trys to flurt with bill) so sally was getting all upset that sandy was with bill and then he says "sandy told me today that carrie (me)was telling people a bunch of shit" about their relationship. yeah so now shes tell people lies about me and lies about sally and bill. i need to make her stop this. now sally and bill's reationship on the rocks because of hera n its pissing me off more and more everyday. she keeps trying to talk to me and be my "friend" again nad i really dont want to. but what am i suposed to do. i cant just ignore her i try not to be mean to people. but omg shes a bitch.why are their people in the wolrd that just lie and ruin everything. you know she tryed to get me to break up with my boyfriend. and she was suposed to be my bestreind? yeah that was the ice beaker for me i dont tlak to her anymore and i want it to stay like that.
any advice is good but if not this is an example of someone none of you out there should be.
THANKS A MILLION! <3
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That sounds really frustrating. There's not much you can do other than just stay away from her. Don't even try to be her friend anymore. That doesn't mean she has to be your enemy, just someone that you don't have any relations with at all. There are a lot of people like her in the world. Sad, but true. The best thing you can do is recognize who they are and just take everything they say and do with a grain of salt.
If you are feeling extra nice and want to give Sandy another chance, sit down and talk with her. Tell her how her actions are making you feel. Stay very calm and collected. Give her a chance to explain everything. If she lies, don't get angry. Just let it go and let her go. She's not worth all this frustration you are feeling.
Now on to Sally and Bill's relationship. You say that it is on the rocks because of Sandy. I know this may sound kind of harsh, but if Sally and Bill had a strong relationship, Sandy wouldn't be able to do anything about it no matter what silly lie she told.
Soon enough, everyone will see Sandy for what she is like you do. People will stop believing her and things will get back to normal. Just be patient until that happens. Good luck. :)
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