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i need help on a big relationship problem
my boyfriend and i have a communication problem we don't never talk or have nothing to talk about he is 30 and i am 26 we just had a baby that is 3mnths what should i do.
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Has this always been an issue, or just since the baby was born?
If it has always been an issue, I would suggest some sort of deeper reflection about what's going on. Which of you is holding back, or both? Why is this happening?
If this is just since the baby, I would suggest you carve out some time for just the two of you - no baby involved. Perhaps an activity you can do together (and therefore have a new topic to talk about the rest of the week!), or simply a date night where you can relax together with no distractions.
If you are both aware of the problem and both want to do something about it, there is a lot that can be done. This involves some honest reflection on each of your parts, as well as a commitment to try to communicate honestly about what's going on. Couples counselling is a fantastic space to speak truthfully with each other and try to figure out solutions.
I wish you the very best.
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