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Boyfriends' ex girlfriend.
My boyfriends' ex girlfriend is back in town & she wants to hangout with him. I know I shouldn't be worried because I know he loves me. But the fact that his ex girlfriend of almost 2 years wants to hangout with him has me a bit worried. What if when he sees her, feelings come back? Or they start hanging out more often & feelings start up again? I have never felt this way about someone & I don't want to loose what we have. He asked me if I was okay with it & I said yes because I don't want to control who he hangs out with. But now that I have thought about it, I don't want him hanging out with her. What should I do and/or say to him? I'm just scared & need a little advice on this subject.
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I would talk to him about how you feel now...It would bother the CRAP out of me too if Daniel hung out with his ex's. You say he loves you and Im sure he does, so he should have no problem respecting your wishes as his girlfriend. If he knows that it bothers you, and if he is a good guy, he shouldnt go. But if you are willing to compromise, say its okay for the two of them to hang out, as long as you are there too. Or make it a group thing. I hope I helped and i hope that things work out for you, let me know how I did and how it goes with you guys...and dont worry, if he loves and respects you like you say, he should be okay with whateve makes YOU comfertable....you not being controlling, your being..well, HUMAN.
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Perhaps arrange too go out for most of the nights when she is down.
If he works then he im guessing will have mainly night time off..
Go down the pub, arrange a meal, visit friends, family.
Hes obvisouley in love with you if he asked you if its ok, so tell him you want too spend time with him.
Remind him off the passion you share..
Perhaps create a night time bit of fun in the bedroom..Candles...Kinky stuff...etc etc...They always like too be reminded of the things they love most ^^
<3 LittleMooCow
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