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what is love???
I am 18 recently got to know a gal(18 too) which i thought would slip out of my life,we became great friends from total strangers,although i have secretly had a crush on her. but lately on our first date.....the whole time i was with her i didin't feel anything,i mean,is this normal?aren't u suppose to be on cloud nine when you are on your first date...i didin't feel anything,it's as if i were taking out just a normal friend,and then i started questioning my feelings,but do you actually question your feelings when you really are in love?
so am i in love .....or not?
please help me,i know i may seem pathetic,sorry
thanks for reading.
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dont worry about falling totally in love with someone on a first date..your usually just getting to know them anyways! i know how this goes because when i first met my boyfriend of now, i didnt like him at all and thought he was a jerk because of some things that were said. but i finally went out with him once because there wasnt anything else i was doing and he hAd apologized....and things just sort of went from there. i liked him for quite a while and things started building =D so give it some time and see her a couple more times if you enjoy being with her and everything, and you might just make a good friendship off of it or it might grow into something more! xoxo helpachick
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You don't have to be madly in love with someone to date them. It usually takes some time.
You are right, if you are really in love you don't generally question it. But it is a little soon to make that decision.
Give it some time. If your feelings never change, then you may just be great friends. :)
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hmm i think you are kind of expecting love at first sight. to find love, we must reach deep into our souls (and theirs) to find something that you both have in common.
go on another date and give it time. i would say go for 4 more dates and if you feel nothing then, you arent in love.
oh and you might have been nervous since it was the first date =]
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