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Boyfriend Of One Month me=f/14 him=m/15
okay so my boyfriend doesnt know the first thing about girls... he really doesnt open up to me and we are REALLY shy around each other and i still dont know much about him! hes like waht do you wanna know.. its supposed to flow naturally i dont know what to ask him becuase i dont know him! How can i help him without tellling him waht to do? Hes really cute and ive liked him for awhile and really want this to work, but i deserve more attention than this! Help me to help him to help me, lol thanks!!
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Well you are right, you should get to know the person you're dating. But guys are often like that. Most arent really very good at carrying on conversations. They are really afraid they are going to say something to ofend you, like accidentally call you fat by saying you look awesome in that shirt or something. Girls are often naturally better at starting up conversations, but when we are shy it is even harder for us. So I would suggest that you go on a date where you are alone in a restaurant, and all you can do is talk to him. Before hand pick ten or twenty things you want to know about him, or that you want him to know about you. And then just start talking. And eventually he should begin to open up and talk about those things too. Once you get to a point where you are talking about what you did in science class, you know that you communicate enough.
And if he doesnt open up right away, thats okay, give him sometime, he'll get it at some point. Hope I gave you some insight. Good luck with your relationship! Lotsa love!
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youre still fairly young, its normal for things to be a little akward in a relationship. but i gotta tell ya, it doesnt get THAT much better. most guys dont know anything about girls, and many have trouble opening up. you can try guiding him, helping him along
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Talk about something that you like and see if he chimes in on the subject. This is a good way to find out what he's interested in and to also see if you have common interests. He's a shy guy, so you might have to make the first moves into getting him to open up.
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welcome to reality!!
haha
You typically go out with someone to get to know them better, so your on the right track. You do the talking for a while, and eventually he will become less and less shy around you and will eventually spark convo by himself.
i think i helped you help him to help you ;)
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