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guys, never friends
15/f. i'm in 9th grade at middle school and i always have this problem where whenever i start becoming friends with a guy or talk to them a lot, i always start to get a crush on them and never just stay friends. why does this happen? it is like i can't have any guy friends...just crushes. also once i start talking to a guy a lot people automatically think i like them it is very annoying. and when i do like a guy most people can tell. and i don't think that i'm being that obvious...what can i do?
thanks!
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You are influenced probably much by horomones. If you really do start liking a guy, you'll know.
To explain why people think you like a guy that you're around: It is either because your signals (or body language) is suggesting that you like a person or everyone thinks you're a flirt and they like to tease you jokingly that you like a guy you're just talking to.
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omg i know exactly what you mean i have the same problem!!
i would just have to say at our age its fun to have crushes but its also fun to have guy friends but whenever i get guy friends i always start to like them 2 so i would say just look after one guy that you really like and if you start likeing some1 else but u like the 1 guy better just think about that 1 guy and talk to him more and get him to try and like you more then a friend
good luck
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It's probably your hormones acting up. Just chill, don't look at a guy as a possiblity of your bf. Just enjoy the time where you can be guys friends without THEM wanting more. Seriously. Just be friends with them. If you really like a guy, don't be too good of a friend with him because then people will say "OH MY GOD! SHE LIKES HIM THE MOST"
or something like that. tune it down a little and hang out with your girl friends more often.
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