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I dont know what to do???
Okay...this is Haley...again! lol but me and my boyfriend as i have said before have been dating for about 5 months and we're defanitely in love! and he's told me before that he's never felf this way about anyone!! but he dated this girl before me for 3 and a half years.....!!!! and she ended up breaking his heart and they talked about getting married and stuff like that! Now the girl is a really big whore...like believe me I know!! And me and him talk about when we get married and he says that im the one hes been waiting for and that everything about their realtionship was a lie bc he couldnt trust her...But i always feel like im being compared to her or that he still wonders about how things wouldve been if she hadn't have turned out like that! And we've talked about it but i just cant get HER out of my head! and im driving myself crazy!!! And what really sucks is that the girl is pretty! I just dont know! and everybody remembers his as the popular quarterback who dated Charity...???? What do i do someone please tell me!
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I know he shouldn't do so, but he seems to not forget his past relationship. 3 and a half years is really long, and it probably hurt him that his gf of long standing betryed him. In a way, his comparisons, though not trying to be mean to you, means that he wished that relationship didn't turn out that way. However, you have the chance to turn his mindset around, and make him feel like he can trust girls again with his heart.
If you can't get it off the fact that he's making comparisons, talk to him about how he truely felt in his past relationship. Doing this will make you understand better and make you two closer as a whole.
I hope this helps.
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The cold truth is, people never stop loving their Ex's. What they do is find somebody else whom they love more.
If it's being called into question in your mind, you shoudl really tell him how you feel. besides it may prove to be better. i've seen people lead others on for years just to take for all their worth. and even after the ;ead onstill feel that they were truly in love.
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