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first kiss
This is going to sound so weird but i dont know how to kiss. I'm nervous. Really nervous. Please Help!
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Inexperience is not weird. No one can tell you how you should kiss, but if you think you are ready and have the opportunity, you can try these tips.
1. Have extrememly fresh breath (no onions or garlic beforehand).
2. No slobbers!
3. Keep your tongue in your own mouth to start and just lip kiss until you get that down.
4. When you want to play tongue, keep it short and use the tip. No one needs or wants a tongue stuck down their throat!
5. Close your eyes and enjoy it. Stop to make eye-contact. Smile. Repeat!
6. Kissing is great, so savor the moment and don't feel the need to go beyond kissing for the time.
7. Kissing can be really hot if it is slow and starts with little kisses, so never rush or be rushed. Control the tempo and remember slower is better...I can't stress this enough!!!
8. Beware of germs and herpes that spread by kissing...yucky, but reality.
9. Carry Mints, Breathe spray, but not gum! You can't be ready to kiss if you are both chewing gum! Spitting it out first just is not classy.
10. Finally, wait for the right person, because you can never have another FIRST.
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the only new thing i have to add besides dont worry and follow your instinct is use your hand. if he is pressing in to hard you reach up and lightly touch his face while you pull back if you want it harder slide your hand around to the back of his neck and hold him while pressing your face in tighter.
oh, and breath through your nose.
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Well, this is not a weird question because most all girls are and when I want to kiss a guy I even get nervous because I dont know if the guy wants to french or just plane kiss or what. But the best thing you can do is when a guy wants to kiss you then go along with it he should make the desision on how to kiss. Because he may not be ready either.
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There is no problem with being nervous, or not knowing how. All I can say is, you learn as you go. I had the same problem. But it's not as bad as you think.
-Syd
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awwwww i know i had the same problem and all you need to do is relax and do what feels natural you know just let it happen your'll be fine and if you trust the guy who your kissing than it should be easy if you must let him lead and you follow
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This probably won't help you out that much, but I thought the same thing. All I can tell you is that it comes natural. Everybody kisses different, and one person can not tell another person how to kiss. But when it comes down to it, you'll know exactly what to do even if you think you don't. :]
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