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If the chance came, i would consider dumping him for the other guy. But i like them both so much.
Ok, sorry if this is kind of long! I really appreciate any of you who will take the time to answer this, because i am really in a crisis.
Okay, well I have a boyfriend, he is a grade younger than me. But he is one of the best boyfriends i've ever had. He gives me hugs all the time, and he moves at my pace. And i am totally 100% positive that he likes me a lot. Theres no problem there whatsoever.
But the thing is, i am starting to miss my old boyfriend, who is my age.. that i have known for a longer time. I was going out with him about a year and a half ago. I still liked him when we broke up, but the reason we broke up was because my stupid friend (who i am not friends with anymore) told him that i wanted to break up. But i never told her that i wanted to break up with him, and i gave her no permission to break up with him for me. I later found out that the reason that she did this was because she liked him, and she was jealous, so she wanted to end our relationship. I bet you're asking why i didn't just go straighten things up with him back then. But the truth is, i was sorta shy until about a year ago. And we were both heartbroken when we broke up. He really cared about me and i really cared about him. My other friend recently told me that she would always ask him if he still liked me and he would say that he did. He always seemed really sad around me after that. It seemed like he really missed me, and i missed him too. I have wanted him back for so long now. But im not quite sure if he would still want me back. It seems like he still kind of likes me, but the only problem is that now, he also has a girlfriend. I don't want to interfere with him and his girlfriend at all, because i dont want any feelings to get hurt. But i think i am hurting myself inside just thinking about this. i really miss him, A LOT!
So yea, i have liked him this whole time pretty much, but now i am starting to like him even more. But i still love my boyfriend so much. like i would be sooo extremely sad if we broke up. But i guess i am at the point where, if the chance came, i would consider dumping him for the other guy. But i like them both so much. I am not sure how he feels about the girlfriend he has, but he probably likes her now. It really does seem like he likes me too though, and please don't say that either one is a bad boyfriend, because they both would never cheat on their girlfriends or intentionally do anything to hurt them. They are both such special people to me. I also talk to them all the time. I feel like a bad girlfriend to be acting like this. What should i do?!?! HELP pleeease!
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We all have our problems and are confused at times. I say if you still like your current boyfriend then I say stick with him for awhile since he likes you. And now for your ex if he has a girlfriend right now I don't blame you for not getting into them but have it go through a friend and find out if he still has feelings for you. Good Luck with whoever you are sticken with
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We're all human and we have our flaws so don't feel bad. I say weigh the pros and cons for each of them.
Well, since you've already gone out with your ex, why don't you gve your current boyfriend a chance a little bit longer? If you're still having doubts, ask him if it's okay if you guys took a little break from each other (only if your ex is single)
I don't know. If you relaly feel guilty, just tell your current boyfriend that you think you're starting to like your ex again and you don't know what you're feeling and that both of them are equally important to you.
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