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my family hates me....
i'm 16 and my family never listens to me when somthing happens to my younger brother(14) and sister(13) that is an accident. the other day my sister and i accidentally ran into eachother is a small hallway and she started to cry and i got grounded because i 'shoved' her into the wall. my parents never belive me because i lied 1 time about my sister having someone in her class to help her put with something that i had no idea about what her teacher wanted her to do. my brother is always beating me up and calling me fat, a hoe, and a bitch in front of my parents and he never gets in trouble even tough they watch him do it. no one in my family treats me fairly and the other day on our way home from the boling alley my parents were telling my how to fix my bowling but i told them that still had to work on throwing the ball properly and and they made me walk halfway to our house which was about 10 miles from where they kicked me out of the car. is there anyway for me to get my family to treat me better and get them to listen to me. i don't want to get taken away from my faily. i know that i'm the oldest but that doesn't mean that my family has to treat me like this. is there any way to get my family to respect me?
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you definately need a third party involvled in this. if they are all against you and wont listen they might respond better if you talk to a guidance counsilor/ or principal and have them sit down with all of you to relate how hurt you are. There is no call for your brother to abuse you and if your parents condone it then they are breaking the law. so go to school and get some help?
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wow... sweetie, i'm soooo sorry...
you're probably in high school, right? talk to your guidance counselor, because that's what they're there for. maybe they can refer you to a family therapist or something... guidance counselors really DO want to help you. may power be with you. :)
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The government can force your family into counciling, which is the best you can hope for in your situation. Talk to your teacher, or someone else who works for the government about it.
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