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Am I just insecure?
15/f
OK. So I dunno if I'm just insecure or stupid or something. Like I'm single.. but when I go out with a guy I feel held down and like I can't trust them. But when I'm single I feel alone and worthless.. then someone rescues me and I become someones girl and I just feel like my freedom has been overtaken. Also a while ago.. (this was my longest relationship) I was dating this guy for 10 months.. we had "it" and everything.. but the day after our 10 months.. he dumped me. He told me he would've dumped me at 8 months but thought I'd go all "emo" so he didn't. It just so happens that he cheated on me.. So now I feel like I can't trust any guy..
What's wrong with me?
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You're not stupid my dear. When a guy cheats on you it's like bleh. I wanna kill him. Then you can't trust the next guy you're going out with because you're afraid the same thing will happen again.
Everytime that I go out with a guy, I feel tied down and I wanna break it with him really soon. It may be because I'm just not ready to have a "boyfriend" but rather a guy friend that acts like my boyfriend but we can still flirt like crazy with other people...
So there is nothing wrong with you. Just chill and learn to trust guys. There are only few coldhearted guys like that guy you went out with for 10months and unless you're having really bad lukc, I doubt you'll get a guy who cheats.
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