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Guys are to confuseing.
I have a best friend and we live sort of far away. we used to go to the same school and i never had any attraction to him. i moved away this year, but still visit very offten. He was changed alot but in all the right places. we are very good friends and i am now physicaly attracted to him. He has a new girlfriend but he cheats on her all the time with me. i dont know what he would do if he knew that i really like him. I scared it would ruin our friendship and thats something i dont want to lose. what should i do?
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You can't trust someone who cheats, because chancesa are that once he's going out with you, he'll cheat on you. Cheaters don't stop. I know it's hard, but you need to either cut off the relationship or tell him (maybe email?) that you just want to be friends. Maybe that will make him realize he really likes you, but if not, you're not missing anything. And as cheesy as it sounds, you can't trust this guy, so after you tell him, meet him in a public place (the mall NOT the movies) the first few times. That way if he tries anything you can get him in trouble.
I'm not saying don't be friends with him...just be careful.
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I think, first and foremost, that you should think about his girlfriend. She's being cheated on by you. I mean, you wouldn't like to be cheated on by your boyfriend's friend, would you?
I think the best thing that you can do, if he really is a good friend of your's. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. I would say, either date or just stay friends because cheating is not the answer.
I understand you are scared about losing everything you have together (I would be scared to lose a good friendship too), but if you don't tell him, you are just going to go on this way. So just try to tell him how you feel, and I'm sure everything will work out great for you.
Good luck!
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Me personally think taht long distance relationships arent soo great & if he is willing to cheat on his new girlfriend then he is bound to find someone else to cheat on you with. Just maybe if its true love then he wont cheat on you. It seems you guys have been friends for awhile and thats a great way to start a relationship cuz you should have alot of trust built up between you tooo.
Just follow your heart.....
&& i hope this helped
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