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ok i'll start this off with the truth, i fucked this up. but i regret it so much and just would like help. theres this guy josh, and i've never had as much in common with a person as i do with him, he used to like me alot and he told me we will probably have a future as more than friends again. from the second we first met we liked eacxhother.a few weeks went by and we werent even together yet, and one night i was very drunk and tried to make a move on his friend because i thoght he ditched me. hes not your average person and takes things very personally so he got very mad. he told me he didnt like me anymore and 2 days later told me he likes someone else. the thing is he still ims me every day, and when i saw him yesterday he told me that he never gives second chances, but for someone like me he probably will in time and that when he saw me he got butterflies in his stomach. hes saying all this when hes telling some other girl he likes her too. he keeps switching the way he feels on and off and its just really confusing me and giving me hope, and i dont know if its false hope or not. i guess the best thing to do is just wait it out, but if theres anyother advice anyone has id really appreciate it.
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You want the truth? He's playing you... To him this is nothing but a game to see which girl he can get... maybe even both of you... If he really liked you he wouldn't be telling another girl that he likes her ALSO. He wants to see which girl he can get and if he can't get her he thinks you can be his rebound girl. Here's some advice, move on and find a better guy because you deserve better than jerks like him who just like playing a game. I hope this helped.
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ok...this kind of conversation might be akward.
so you might want to write a note or send an email. if he doesnt respond to either, then you have to confront him face-to-face or on im about it.
in the email say kind of what you said in your queastion. tell him you know you fucked up bad, but you were drunk, and you REALLY like him and you have so much in commen, and cant he please just give you a second chance. does he like you or this girl? you want him to be honest with you...etc
make sure in the email you sound sad, not mad or anything. because if you get mad he'll just get mad back. but if a girls sad, guys give in easier.
hope i helped
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If I were you I'd ditch him. I don't like guys who gives mixed signals and leave me in a heap of confusion. He's being very wishy washy and greedy because he wants the best of both worlds- you and the other girl.
Just a personal opinion but he's trying to keep a spare tire and ensure that he has at least one girl. You could wait out if you want but you should move on and meet other guys.
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