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I like him ... he likes me ... but he doesn't want to get se
First off, I'm a girl and 15.
K, I've known this guy Justin for a couple of months now. We hit it off well right away, and became friends while I was getting over an ex-boyfriend. Well, we got to talk more and more .. and I started to develop feelings for him. I wasn't sure I wanted to start a new relationship, but Justin was really sweet to me, and I decided I'd regret it if I didn't at least try to see if anything could happen between us.
So - after debating it for a few days, I told him how I felt. I was so nervous, but he told me he cared about me, too -- it had just been hard for him to tell, cus we've known eachother for so short a time.
Sounds great -- but the thing is, he's already told me he isn't interested in having a gf, and I told him I'm not interested in friends with benefits. So, nothing is progressing at all. I really like this guy, though. So my question is - what do I do from here? I don't want to just give up ... but I don't want to wait forever, either. Is there any way that this guy might be able to get the hint?
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Well hun, firstly you actuly have to make sure that you do like him, you said that you started developing feelings for him while you were getting over an ex, you may subconsously just be be looking for a...how would you say...? support, someone to make you feel secure do you know what i mean? but if your 100% sure you do like him for him, not just because you feel like you need him, i think you should keep at him, if you do like him alot nad you think he is worth it, eventuly he will come round, they always do, he may not want a gf but if he does really really like you, he will put out, and like i said eventuly come round
hope iv helped : )
good luck x0x
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