My boyfriend and I have been dating for the past 5 months. he broke it off, and i'm heart broken! its been atleast a month, {the whole reason he did it in the first place was because he told me that he loved me, i kinda sorta freaked out because i didn't want him to just be joking with me and then i tell him that i'm in love with him and he says i was jking.} but i am in love with himm!! i didn't realize this until we ended it. we still "date" but we're just not official. like we do everything we did while we were dating but, we're just not official. all of his friends tell me that he acts like he wants me back, and i've heard it from like everyone. but he doesnt' really talk to his friends about me like you know i do to my friends about him, so i'm just confused on what to do....
i really really really really really want him back but i'm not sure like what i should do?
give him a box of chocolate (the way to a mans heart is through his stomach) and put a note inside that says...
i miss you (or something cheesy like that) do you miss me too?
with a yes or no that he can circle
kchafin answered Monday November 20 2006, 6:53 pm: I hate to stereotype but too often guys are scared of the "C" word (commitment). Definately if you guys have a great friendship- talk to him! because if this guy is your one and only true love then you don't want to let him go. Believe me you will know if he is your one and only. But just incase you have any doubts i'll tell you what my mom told me (yes my mom)She asked me the most important question of my live!
"Think of tomorrow and what if for some reason something happened and you could never-ever see this guy again" " How would that feel?" Well you answer that question and you KNOW what to do!
If the answer is however the opposite of what you expect- then keep a wonderful friendship and MOVE on- you owe that to him and yourself! [ kchafin's advice column | Ask kchafin A Question ]
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