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dodgy friend
Sorry I have absolutley no idea what subject to put this under...
I'm 16/f. One of our family friends comes over a lot to our place. He's about 50 and smokes pot and drinks from very early in the morning to when he goes to bed. He's not drunk often because he's used to it. He always looks like he's gonna kiss me and always give me hugs. He grabs my ass and rubs my legs and stuff. I'm not scared of him or what he'll do because I can stand up for myself. Yesterday he was pretty drunk when he came over, I've never seen him like that and when he kept hugging me it felt like he had an erection. He kept showing me dirty stuff on his cell phone infront of my parents who are pretty protective of me and I was so embarrassed. We both have camera phones and he was taking a photo of me and when he took it I saw it slip down a bit so he took a photo of my breasts and saved it. He always makes comments like "that's a nice necklace" or "I like that shirt on you" so he can stare at my breasts. Whenever I say something like about my appearance he grabs me around the waste and whispers that im "f***ing gorgeous". What do you think I should do? I don't want to tell anyone because I think he's harmless and he's a family friend.
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Hi Sweety,
OK, who cares if hes a family friend he is certainly dodgy. He is 50 and your 16!!!
I know you wrote that you can stick up for yourself but he will reel you in and it won't matter how much you refuse. Rubbing legs, grabbing your ass and staring at your boobs??? This is certainly disgusting i know you would of heard of peoadophiles perving on young girls he is one!!!
Before you know it he will be abusing you and raping you and forcing you for sex! Tell someone for sure, preferably your parents- mum, sister, aunty etc. Females may be more comfortable and less awkward, don't ever tell the man to lay off because he will just go for it and to something nasty.
Hope it helps please tell someone.
Mandy
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He's 50 & your 16. That's NOT normal. You should really talk to your parents about this. If you don't want to get this so called 'friend' in trouble, just explain to your parents that you don't feel comfortable being around him, and hopefully they'll understand. If not, try avoiding contact with him at all times. Sometimes you can't solve the problem of icky perverts, you just have to avoid them.
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Family friend or not he's being quite disrespectful to you. OMG, he's 50! Your like leading him on, showing him your body like that and he hasn't even earn the privilege to see you. You need to carry yourself like a lady your a confident woman with him and not like some other teenage lonely whore. Right now it's like your his "Family Friend with Benefits." If you want to be a hoe and sleep with a high, drunk, unstabled,old man go for it, but i say it's not a wise chioce cause you'll feel like crap and used. Sounds like you may be a bit desperate or lonely. That guy just sounds like another old fart trying to be young and perverted. He's 50, think about it....i know love has no age or sex, but think about also if you sleep with him and you get actually attached i don't think he'll totally break his neck to fight for you. In reality your a minor and the law doesn't take well to situatons like these. He could end up in jail and if your a virgin hold off for the right "young" guy first. Well hope i helped.
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OMG this is a loser of the worst kind! I can't believe the nerve of some people! Family friend or not, harmless or not, tell your parents to pitch this guy out on his a**!You had me at 50! That is just sick ! Honestly the man wouldn't have to worry about ever getting another erection if he had ever touch me !His behavior is completely unacceptable and I would make this clear to my family. It is not fair for you to have to be subjected to a feely pervert just because he is a friend of the family. If I was there I would bust his face for you!He has no right to ever touch you (without invitation) or , speak to you in such a manner I don't care who he is . Situations like this burn me up because believe me girl I have been there ! I feel what you are going through!If you don't want to make an anoucement to your family (as strongly as I wish you would, as much as I suggest you do) find someway to not be around when he is present if possible. Make plans to stay somewhere else or maybe go out with friends . Furthermore just to burst his bubble, tell him how he makes you feel! Tell him that you don't want him touching you like this ! To keep his nasty thoughts to himself! Tell him to hug himself !
Get em Girl!
Unity
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