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Dear advicenators. I'm 15/m and in highschool. Theres this girl that I've liked for about a year now. We werent really going out but i made it really obvious that I liked her. I would give her stares and friendly smiles and linger around to wait for her to get out of her classes so I could walk her to her next class. I told her how i felt one day and we were on the verge of a relationship for about 4 weeks. I held her hand when we walked and bought her roses. She was my homecoming date but I never really asked her out. This one friday after school she out of the blue came up to me and told me she didn't think this was gonna work out. I was devastated and its been about a month now and I cant get her out of my head. I keep finding myself glancing over at her direction and wanting her to just look back at me for a second but she wont. I want her attention so badly that any kind of attention from her would satisfy me. I dont know what to do.. she seems to like another guy now, and you can probabally tell i'm the jealous type of person. but ya know, if shes happy its better off that way right? and now for the question, sorry for making this so long. Is there something wrong with me? What did I do wrong? and should I try to move on?
serious answers only please, Thanks in advance.
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It may be hard to like a girl who doesn't like you, but if you really like her you should be happy that she's happy even though ou still want to be with her. The best thing to do is move on, you can't just sit around waiting for yourself to stop liking her because it wont happen. Life is to short for regret. Don't keep tryng to figure out what went wrong, because life goes on.
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Nothing is wrong with you. Maybe she didn't like the idea that you never actually asked her out. she probably didn't like waiting. But it may help you if u talked to her, and asked her why she thought it wouldn't have worked out. It might be the right thing to move on, even though its the hardest thing to do.
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Of course there is nothing wrong with you. You feel sad that she wasn’t willing to feel the same toward you that you were starting to feel toward her. There are going to be many people in your life that will not feel the same way toward you that your feel toward them. Even people who like you a lot and you don’t like them back the same way. It is time to move on but that doesn’t mean you don’t get sad about it. That will change in time. You cant change the way others think and feel. The only thing you can do is change the way you yourself feel and react. Give her space and give yourself time to process the rejection and move on to the next stage. It is amazing the way that the human heart has the capacity to love. It is also amazing how it can mend when it has been broken and love again. Getting your heart broken just means you have that capacity to feel deeply and there is nothing wrong with that at all.
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No no no no no!
You didn't do anything wrong!
She's just moved on. You've liked her for a year now... maybe more? I think it's just that she's gotten so used to you, that she wants a change in her life. You didn't do anything wrong. It's like what my mom says to me... It's THEIR loss, not your's. Yes, you should try to move on. There's somebody out there who's just as good as her, and she's waiting for you, so go and find her.
Travel, or go out and have an adventure, find her!
It's good that she's happier, because you want her to be happier. What you can do is go up to her and say "I know that our relationship didn't work, but at least let me still be your friend." Just let her know that you are there for her, and if she needs someone to talk to, as a friend, that you'll always be there for her, no matter what.
I wish the best!
-volleyball2150
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