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i have had sex alot, what should i do
i have had sex about three times in the past two weeks is this normal? i am only 13. my bf is coming over tonight only my bff is going to be there too and i dont know what we should do..my bf is 17. i have been goin out with him for 2 months and have sex with him 7 times and 3 times with other guys..whatshould i do tonight?
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It's not really a question of "normal". It's a choice that you make. Personally, I think you are too young and two months is not a commited relationship. Also, having sex with other guys is DANGEROUS. If you continue, you WILL get hurt. Since you asked what you should do, the answer is STOP. As soon as possible, before it's too late. There's nothing wrong with having sex, it's wonderful, but you have to be safe. I could ramble on about the risks, but I'm not here to terrify you. So instead, here are some websites with information that will help you.
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There's nothing you can do to change the past, but please, from now on you have to make the right choice.
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Well, I think 3 times in two weeks might be not so much for a healthy longlasting relationship. On the other hand, I think you're VERY young to be sexually active. The question is, do you enjoy having sex? If no, you shouldn't have it yet. If you do, it might be okay, though I'd make sure it was safe if I were you, since you've had multiple sex partners. Next point is, two months is very short. If it were my I'd wait AT LEAST 3 months before even beginning to think about sex.
Ask yourself why you are having sex with him. Do you love him? Do you enjoy having sex with him, or do you do it just to please him? You should only have sex with someone you love and when you enjoy it yourself. Do realise that most guys just want sex and think of nothing else, especially when they're 17. Does he really love you, or just use you for sex? Think about that.
Final point, I don't know what a bff is so I might not completely understand your situation.
I hope this helps a bit.
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