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Family, friends, school....
here is the deal, i am extremely depressed cause my grandpa had his arm amputated, his legs might be amputated too...my cousin..she takes drugs like exstacy or however you spell it..and pot and she might have not told me what else....she used to cut herself..dont know if she still does...she lost her virginity to some worthless guy...i thought it was supposed to be special..:'( this boy i like ...i told him that i do and i dont know whats goin on with him..mixed signals.....i guess i dont know, he's confusing..this new boy is coming on monday..really cute but my friend's mom will be friends with his mom cause they met today, he will sit next to celeste cause the principal showed where he'll be sitting, so hell share textbooks cause in my country you dont get them at school...and i dont know whats going on with my friend she says she doesnt like him but whatever...my best friend has these problems she says i have small crushes..hers can make her future...that hurt me a lot...her mom is a lunatic....but finally i asked for a goth boy yesterday and you know what happens? a really hot boy from canada dressed in black with dark brown hair and blue eyes... just what i wanted dark hair and bright eyes on a guy... shows up..and everyone is assuming since celeste is a blonde and im a punk/goth brunette well fight and hell get her some say..but she is not a dumb blonde she is a smart blonde..from england..not a brit accent though anyway...my friends have been a little hard on me when they mess with me, its been kinda too much for me right now, i tell them to stop but they say they r just joking, no one understands me..i dont know whats going on, im sooooo confused..my life is a mess i want everything to stop so i can sort it out...i know this seems like a normal teen drama..but its hitting me real real hard..should i let my emotions out or should i keep them in and help everyone else? i want to be like that cause i feel like those things pass by and people have bigger problems...i dont know..
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Wow. Calm down. First of all, I'm sorry about your grandfather. But some things just can't be helped. It's okay to feel sad about things like that, but there's no use in letting it spoil your life as well as his. Your grandfather probably doesn't want that to happen either, he is the one suffering from it, his handicap shouldn't make it impossible for the both of you to stop enjoying certain things. There is nothing that makes grandparents more happy than seeing happy grandchildren. Also remember that you share this grief with the rest of your family, so don't be afraid to talk about it with them.
Next up, your cousin. That's entirely her problem. I understand you love her and want her to be okay, but you can't help her if she doesn't want to be helped. Be there for her, listen to her, tell her you disagree with her substance abuse, but don't get carried away with it. It's her life, not yours.
About all these boys. Don't focus on three at a time. Focus on one, and if it doesn't work, then you can always move on. Don't listen to your friends if they're hard on you, just shut them out. Don't listen when a girl says her crushes can make her future, you guys sound way too young to worry about stuff like the future.
Remember that you cannot help other people before you help yourself. Let your emotions out. You're responsible for your own life, so try to make it as good as you can. Of course helping others is important, but you should be able to do that without suffering from it yourself.
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