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to boys...which one???
hey my name is jamie and im in a really tight situation...k well here it is
i am dating this guy that i dont know if i care for in that way very much...
but then there is this other guy who seems to really like me to and i like love this one. The only problem is he has a girlfriend to...but i like him so much and he likes me still so much!!
We are really good friends and all but we both want more...but i dont want to know hes just gonna play with my head but i dont think so! We flirt alot to and i just love it
...but what should i do?
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I would have a serious talk about this all with him, and what you both want to do. Do you guys want a future possible relationship with together? I know you don't want to hurt your others, but you can't date them just for their sake if you're not happy with them and are wanting to date someone else.
Even if you two don't plan to get together ( which I think you should ), still end it with your current boyfriend anyways. Obviously if you're liking other guys, something's not right with the relationship, and it's not right to lie and basically pity date him and let it linger if, like I said, there's another guy other there who can make you so much happier.
So just talk to him and ask eachother where you both see this heading and if you two are going to break up with your currents, for eachother. And if you do this, I suggest not going out right away. Just like a week or so, just at least some time pass, to let your exes try and heal at least a little bit, and then start dating. You don't want your exes to feel like they've just been dumped for someone else. That'll make them feel majorly lousy.
So talk to eachother, see what you both want, break up with your girlfriend/boyfriends ( you break up with him no matter what ), and see where it goes on from there.
I hope I helped.
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First of all, I think you should break it off with your current boyfriend. Even though you may think it's pretty "cool" to have a boyfriend, using a guy just to be able to say you have a boyfriend, regardless of if you like them or not, it's still wrong. Then you should like have a serious conversation with the guy that you really like. You don't really know if this guy doesn't like his girlfriend like you say he doesn't, so you'll have to wait and see. Maybe he's just waiting until you're single? You may wanna take action even, and ask him if he has the same feelings you do.
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