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My friend is Pregnant and I have feelings for her???
I met this gurl in Sept. in a welfare office. I was shy and my sister gave me the entrance to talk to her. Well, she is pregnant and due in late November. The father has nothing to do with the pregnancy and she doesn't want him around. I first started to help her, like buy her stuff for the babyshower and give her money and help pay bills, just as friends I said. We flirt often and i develop feelings for her. i just don't know should I tell her I like her or wait till she gives birth. she gives me clues by calling me and chatting, ask me to buy dinner and even asked me to be there during delivery. Wat is going on from a female side?????
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You dont want babydaddy drama.
General guy-wisdom dictates you dont get involved with a single mother unless her kids at least 5 and healthy. Why? Because the kids getting to the age of schooling, making things easier on you, and if she can get a kid to 5 as a single mother shes not going to dump the responsiblity on you.
Come back in a little over 5 years.
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Hi, that is a touchy situation that your in. I have a son and let me tell you when I was pregnant my hormones were all over the place but they were much worse after I gave birth I dont think waiting is a good idea she is going to have alot more going on after the baby is born and may feel over whelmed. Tell her how you feel now. But also tell her that you realize she has alot on her plate and if she's not ready to change the pace of your relation ship right now you understand and that you would rather be friends than nothing at all. I would tell her that you sometimes think of her more than friends and ask her if she would ever consider the 2 of you as more.
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Well, love is love. You can't control who you love, baby or not. You should find out if she has the same feelings towards you, she may just be being friendly, in like a best friend sort of way. But then again, and I'm not saying this just because she's pregnant and needs help, she may be using you for your money. You say you help her out with bills and stuff, and she asks you to buy her dinner and stuff, then she may just want your money. You'll just have to see where it goes, but be careful.
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Why wait? If love is blooming, then she will be glad to have your support and friendship as well as good loving feelings and togetherness NOW!!!
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