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Member Since: November 14, 2006
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Last Update: November 14, 2006
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I don't have really bad acne or anything but its at the point wear my normal cleaser isn't doing anything and my acne is just getting worse. I use right now the neutrogena Clear pore cleanser/mask and then the on-the-spot acne stuff but it hasn't been helping at all i have been using for a long time too. I want to try pro-active, do u think it will help? Is there something else thats better?? o and i also have this really anyoing problem, like i will wash my face in the moring and by lunch time its all oily and gross and help with that? thanks a bunch!!

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I don't suggest proactiv. I used it for like 4 years, and although it worked for like a year, that was when I was younger and my skin wasn't bad at all. It made my face red, oily, and it didn't really work at all. Some people it does work on though, everyone's different, some stuff works for some, some for others. It's good you're tackling it before it gets horrible. Right now, I use some kind of Cetaphil stuff (I don't think that's spelled right.) and it works wonders, my face is starting to look really good. Also, if you go on Clearasil.com, they have a little test you can take about your skin and it'll prescribe products that you can buy in store that should work for you. I did that and I found something that actually worked, but I switched cause it had me doing like 4 different things and I got annoyed because I'm impatient. As for the oily face in the middle of the day, you can try bringing maybe a mini bottle of face soap with you to school and washing your face in the middle of the day, or just wiping it with a soft tissue. I have the same problem, and if I feel greasy, I'll just wipe my face on my sweatshirt. If you wear make up, make sure it's oil free and made of mostly water. Also, I think it's neutrogena that makes little cloth things that you can wipe your face on. The oily skin may be causing the pimples too!


well yesterday i went to school and all of my "friends" were mad at me so i tried to talk to them and they were just bitches about the whole thing and so today we have this little group thing and we went to it.. i didnt have to.. but i figured id let everybody try to fix it.. and since i had the balls to do that i had to sit ina room of 12 of my girl "friends" and let them ALL pick me apart peice by peice and talk shit about me to my face lie to me and make me feel like nothing.. now i have no one... even my best friends all turned on me and i have no idea what i did to make them turn on me but im really sorry for anything that i did but i dont know how to make things better and everytime i try something it always ends up that im the bad person and ive actually been trying not to have lots of drama but yet im the one blamed for bringing all the drama..i dont get it.. but the thing is that when we were friends they told me to always come to them if i heard that they were talkin about me or anything like that so i did and now that they hear that i have been they went straight to accuising me instead of askin me first and i think that that is pretty hypocritical of them because (1)i didnt even talk about her and the people that told her i did even said that they twisted my words to make it seem like i was tlakin about her.. i really wanna solve this so that nobody has to deal with this bullshit..please help me (link)
Try and work things out. Tell them what they said hurt you a lot. Also figure out what they were mad at you for in the first place, if you don't know already. Sometimes it's better to get rid of some friends, like if they talk trash about you and are willing to do it infront of your face, what are they saying behind your back?


I met this gurl in Sept. in a welfare office. I was shy and my sister gave me the entrance to talk to her. Well, she is pregnant and due in late November. The father has nothing to do with the pregnancy and she doesn't want him around. I first started to help her, like buy her stuff for the babyshower and give her money and help pay bills, just as friends I said. We flirt often and i develop feelings for her. i just don't know should I tell her I like her or wait till she gives birth. she gives me clues by calling me and chatting, ask me to buy dinner and even asked me to be there during delivery. Wat is going on from a female side????? (link)
Well, love is love. You can't control who you love, baby or not. You should find out if she has the same feelings towards you, she may just be being friendly, in like a best friend sort of way. But then again, and I'm not saying this just because she's pregnant and needs help, she may be using you for your money. You say you help her out with bills and stuff, and she asks you to buy her dinner and stuff, then she may just want your money. You'll just have to see where it goes, but be careful.


hey my name is jamie and im in a really tight situation...k well here it is
i am dating this guy that i dont know if i care for in that way very much...
but then there is this other guy who seems to really like me to and i like love this one. The only problem is he has a girlfriend to...but i like him so much and he likes me still so much!!
We are really good friends and all but we both want more...but i dont want to know hes just gonna play with my head but i dont think so! We flirt alot to and i just love it

...but what should i do? (link)
First of all, I think you should break it off with your current boyfriend. Even though you may think it's pretty "cool" to have a boyfriend, using a guy just to be able to say you have a boyfriend, regardless of if you like them or not, it's still wrong. Then you should like have a serious conversation with the guy that you really like. You don't really know if this guy doesn't like his girlfriend like you say he doesn't, so you'll have to wait and see. Maybe he's just waiting until you're single? You may wanna take action even, and ask him if he has the same feelings you do.




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