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am i right to be annoyed/pissed at my friend
yeah well im annoyed with cause i asked her and two of my friends to come with me to planned parent hood and they all said yes but she was also was goin so she could get on the pill and today one of the friends i asked to come with ended up in the hospital today so it was gonna be me her and my other friend and wen she found out she couldnt go on the pill with out makin an appointment and she couldnt do it today she wouldnt come anymore and i thought that was really messed up cause i wanted some of my friends to be there with me cause i was kinda worried and shit and i feel happy around my friends. also wen i called to tell her bout our friend bein in the hospital she was annoyed at me for calling cause her tone was jsut like she was really annoyed like she didnt give a shit probably cause she was on the phone with her b/f cause she wasnt even gonna talk to me till i said it was bout our friend. wen me and my other friend were actually worried and on saturday i told bout soemthin that happened to me shes like i wish ppl didnt tell me their problems and shit cause it can over whelming and i was like well shit w/e i wont tell u bout my problems anymore.
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Hey,
well it depends on how well you know her, like if shes been your best friend for ever and you can tell her anything, then tell her, but as far as I can see, she just seems alittle p.o. sometimes, we go through things we dont want to talk about, and then become really annoying to our friends. it sucks that she hasnt told you whats going on, but it looks like there is something bothering her. If I were you I'd give her some space, and just hope that your friendship can survive what shes going through.
I'm glad that you think its important to care about your friends, but for some people friends dont come first, b/fs and other things are more important, and you have to respect that. It kinda sucks that you feel more inclined to help her when she doesnt seem that way to you, but you just have to be that great friend, and hope that soon she will realize that you are really important to her.
some people would suggest that you give her space and that is a possibility, but she may need you, or she may take it the wrong way. so yeah, I'd just forget about what she did and how she acted, but you have to do what you feel is right. I hope I helpped good luck
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