Question Posted Tuesday November 14 2006, 12:03 am
Well, here's the thing. I met this guy at the dog park. We totally hit it off, and we talked for an hour and a half. It was wonderful. Then we had to go, because it was getting dark and I had to walk home. I left without getting his number, but browsing MySpace, I found and added him. It's been about a month since I talked to him, but I really want to see him again. What should I do? If I message him, what do I say?
This'll make him feel good that you remembered him, and especially that you had such a great time with him and loved talking with him and want to hang out with him again soon.
If you two had such a blast the first time you guys met, I'm sure it'll be just as fun the second. You guys can catch up on the month you two have missed.
AdviceMistress answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 1:29 pm: Just make it casual be like "Hey aren't you the guy from the park?" just be yourself and don't stress to much on what your going to write. Maybe mention in the letter that you guys should get together sometime. good luck!
xldywing answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 2:10 am: reconnection! always a tricky topic in everyday life. i've had to go through some of these myspace messaging days myself to reconnect with people. i say you take a go at it and message him. jog his memory by saying where you met and that you met him a month ago at the dog park. don't forget to mention specifics and such that you guys talked about to really make it stand out in his memory. as the first message, just get reacquainted with him. then, as you two begin to talk more, you know what to do ;D best wishes! =] [ xldywing's advice column | Ask xldywing A Question ]
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