15/f So i'm going out with one of my friends. This is my first time with a girl and I feel nervous to like kiss her. I like her a lot though, why am i so nervous? Is it because this is the first time i'm gonna be with a girl?? And she wants me to make the first move...I just don't wanna mess up our first kiss I want it to be GREAT.
Additional info, added Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:17 pm: Yeah i'm a girl and she's a girl. I've kissed many guys before.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 10:14 pm: [EDIT: Haha, well I figured you were a girl. Cause I was like,"Well, M and F are far apart on the keyboard, so I doubt she'd make that kind of mistake." But then I was just like,"Well, just in case the person belows me is right.." Haha. ]
Well, from what the person said below, female or male, it's still the same situation and I'll give you the same advice for both genders.
It's alright to be nervous, it's understandable. It probably is just because it's your first time being with someone, and the pressures of them possibly being more experienced than you, of course will be great, because like you said, you don't want to mess up the first kiss.
Also, you really like this person, of course they're going to make you nervous. I always am trembling around the guys I like because I'm so nervous.
So, anyways.
Just relax. It's just first kiss jitters, and it'll be fine. She probably understands that you're nervous so she won't mind if it's not the absolute best, but trust me, first kisses are alwyas the best. :) So just take some deep breaths if you feel yourself getting nervous, and go for it!
LittleMooCow answered Tuesday November 14 2006, 9:40 am: Lol ok I got your reply...
With a female I have no idea.
But my mums gay so I spose I see how they do it =S
Just kiss her as a friend too start with (on the cheek or whatever)
If your comfortable with moving on then it will come naturally ^^
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