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My ex with my "so called friend"
Alright well my guy best friend and I were kinda sorta friends with benefits.
But all along I found out he liked me more than a friend.
So he asked me out and I didn't even like him in that way and I said yeah..
So it didn't work out to well and I broke up with him because I just wanted to be friends..
Now anytime he talks to a girl I get really jealous and want all his attention on me..
I don't get it because I don't even like him.
But he asks me out again because he thinks I'm like leading him on and I say I don't know..
Then he starts talking to this other girl and I say you better not go out with her..
Promise me you won't go out with anyone until you get an answer from me?
So next thing I know he's going out with the one person I truly hate and he's ignoring me.
I don't understand.
What should I do and what is going on with him?!
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ok, first why you're jealous. you get jealous because you're used to getting all of his flirtatious somewhat sexual attention, and even though you're not actually with him you still want that attention to be all on you. understandable but thats what makes the whole fwb thing difficult.
If you guys really are just fwb, or even just friends now you shouldn't really care who he goes out with unless you're watching his back and think the person will hurt him. He may be trying to make you jealous, or realize that you do want to go out with him, or maybe he's just trying to move on and it just so happens it's with the girl that you don't like. Either way, you need to make up your mind about how you want you two's relationship to be
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He's probably moved on from you (or is trying to convince himself that he has)
As for what you should do, be a good friend (which is what you told him you wanted to be)
& you probably DO still like him, and you just don't want to admit it. Friends with benefits can get messy like this.
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